Archive for November, 2011

November 26, 2011

A Minimalist Kid’s Paleo Birthday

My oldest boy Carl turned four last week and we didn’t have a party. Well, we didn’t have a party in the traditional sense of the word. If we lived near family, we totally would have had some people over, but we don’t so we did a Skype get together. It worked out swimmingly.

We also didn’t buy him any traditional gifts. Even before starting this minimalist journey, we never went crazy with birthdays. I feel like a person should be made to feel special on their birthday, and I don’t think commercialization and tons of gifts should be what does it.

Things were slightly different this year, because it was Carl’s first Minimalist and Paleo Birthday. Of course, it’s just a normal birthday to him, and I don’t put those labels on our life when I explain how or why we do things differently than a lot of other people, so I certainly didn’t label his special day as a Paleo Minimalist Birthday either…but, it totally was. And it was great. Here’s what we did to celebrate:

1. The Birthday Kid Gets to Pick All Meals…and gets to eat on the red “You Are Special Today” plate!

Breakfast: Paleo Chocolate Chip Pancakes with Primal Whipped Cream

Lunch: We walked to his favorite local restaurant where the kids had chicken and Daddy and I had bunless burgers.

Dinner: Gluten-Free Paleo Pizza with Primal Spinach Pizza with Feta Topping

Dessert: Paleo Pumpkin Cupcakes with Primal Cream Cheese Frosting

2. Open Gifts from Family:
While we don’t typically buy birthday gifts (I’m more likely to get something special on any-ol’-day because of great behavior or something “earned”), it makes most people feel good to buy gifts. This is especially true for long-distance relatives. Both sides of the family are usually really good about this and try to buy one nice thing or a few fun educational toys.

3. Talk to Family on Skype
My parents are in California and my hubby’s are in Massachusetts, so a Skype party is perfect! Short and sweet and everyone is happy.

4. Family Play Time
My husband works a lot. Birthdays are a day he makes sure to reserve completely for family, with little-to-no-work. We played with a few new toys as a family and just enjoyed each other.

That’s it. Nothing crazy. Nothing stressful. Nothing could have been better.

November 26, 2011

Recipe: Grain-Free Paleo Pumpkin Cupcakes with Primal Cream Cheese Frosting

Grain-Free Paleo Pumpkin Cupcakes

Ingredients:
1/2 cup coconut oil (or grass-fed butter)
9 eggs, beaten
1 teaspoon vanilla
1 + 1/2 cup pumpkin puree
1/4 cup maple syrup
1/2 cup coconut flour
1 + 1/2 cups almond flour
1/4 cup palm sugar
1 tbs baking powder
2 tsp cinnamon
1 tsp pumpkin pie spice
pinch salt

Preparation:
Preheat your oven to 400 degrees F.

Grease a standard, jumbo, or miniature muffin tray, or use silicon or parchment paper liners.

Combine all wet ingredients and mix well. Add dry ingredients and mix until smooth (no worries about over-mixing with Paleo ingredients).

Pour batter into muffin pan and bake approximately 10-12 minutes for mini muffins, 15-18 minutes for standard muffins, or 22-25 for jumbo muffins.

Important Note: Undercooking these (or really any) paleo cupcakes will result in a still-delicious, but impossible-to-remove-from-liner-cleanly product.  Make sure your toothpick really comes out clean before removing these from the oven!

Primal Cream Cheese Frosting:

Ingredients:
1/2 cup to 1 cup softened full-fat cream cheese (grass-fed if you can find it, of course)

Splash of Grade B Maple Syrup (to taste)

Preparation:
Using a hand mixer, blend cream cheese and maple syrup until smooth. Spread on cupcakes when cool.

Disclaimer: These cupcakes are incredibly moist and delicious. That said, they are not nearly as sweet as traditional cupcakes. If you have been eating Paleo or Primal for a while though, these will definitely taste treat-worthy and plenty sweet enough! My kids loved these for my oldest boy’s fourth birthday, and the kids in his preschool class devoured them. Enjoy!

November 25, 2011

Recipe: Gluten Free Paleo Pizza with Primal Spinach and Feta Topping

Gluten Free Paleo Pizza Crust

Ingredients:

1/2 Cup Coconut Flour
1 Cup Almond Meal
1 tsp Baking Powder
2 tsp Garlic Powder
4 Eggs
3 tbsp Olive Oil
1/2 to 3/4 Cup of Coconut Milk (until mixture is dough-like)

Preparation:

Preheat Oven to 375 Degrees.

Combine dry ingredients, smashing all lumps in coconut and almond flours with fork. Add wet ingredients and mix with spoon or hands until it forms a ball. Place on parchment lined cookie sheet or pizza pan (I love my cheap dollar-store pizza pans) and roll out by hand or with rolling pin. It helps to add another sheet of parchment paper to the top of the dough while rolling out, otherwise it will stick to the rolling pin.

Bake the crust only in a preheated 375 degree oven for 15-20 minutes.

While the crust is cooking, prepare your topping.

Primal Spinach and Feta Pizza Topping

Ingredients:

1 Cup store-bought organic pizza sauce
-or-
1 cup tomato sauce with Italian seasoning to taste

1 cup fresh baby spinach, chopped into small pieces

1/4 to 1/2 cup full-fat feta cheese (grass fed and/or raw if you can find it)

Preparation:
When crust is finished pre-baking, spread sauce on crust. Sprinkle spinach evenly, then feta. Bake for 10 more minutes or so. Enjoy!

November 25, 2011

Recipe: Paleo Chocolate Chip Pancakes with Primal Whipped Cream

Paleo Chocolate Chip Pancakes for the Entire Family

Ingredients:

1/4 Cup Coconut Flour

1 + 1/2 Cups Almond Flour

8 Eggs

1 Tsp Vanilla Extract

2 Tsp Cinnamon

2 Tsp Baking Powder

1/2 Cup Coconut Milk *or 1/4 Heavy Cream + 1/4 Cup Water (less or more to desired consistency)

Optional: Chocolate Chips, Chunks, or whatever you want to add… Sometimes we use mini chocolate chips, sometimes I chop up little bits of a dark chocolate bar.

This makes roughly 18-20 pancakes using 1/3 measuring cup as the scoop.  I use an electric griddle, so greasing the griddle is not necessary.  If you are using a regular skillet, however, you probably want to grease it with coconut oil or grass-fed butter.

Primal Whipped Cream

Ingredients:

1 Cup Heavy Whipping Cream (preferably grass-fed)

Splash of Grade B Maple Syrup (to taste)

Preparation:

Using Wire Wisk Electric Beater, whip the cream until it starts to thicken.  Add desired amount of Maple Syrup and continue whipping until the cream is thick. If you really want to be fancy, you could put the bowl (empty) and wisks into the freezer for 10 minutes before you whip the cream.  Delicious!

November 19, 2011

Window Treatments and Pictures Usually Mean I’m Moving (but not this time)

Since moving away from my parent’s home at seventeen, I haven’t lived in one place for longer than a year and a half. There were always good reasons to move, sometimes I was selfishly “moving up,” and other times, it was a requirement for a job or monetary reasons. Whatever the reason, I have moved almost twenty times in twelve years. Just writing that makes me sick to my stomach.

Moving is unsettling on it’s own, but never feeling settled down…well, that’s an awful feeling for anyone, especially a woman and mother who feels it is her job to provide a home for her kids and husband. And as we all know, a home is not just a house.

Usually, somewhere between the six month and one year mark, I decide I should try to hang some pictures and install some window treatments. On homes I have purchased I did that right away, because who ever buys a home (not intended for strictly investment purposes) they are sure they will move out of within eighteen months, right? Anyway, on the other dozen-and-a-half or so rental homes I’ve been slow to settle in because who wants to pack over and over again?!

So, here we are in New York for my husband’s job. We have no family here and very few friends. We have seriously considered a move to Massachusetts to be close to BH’s vast extended family, because let’s face it, life gets oh-so-lonely here. But, that would mean another move, and either a very long commute for my husband or looking for work in this crappy economy and leaving a job he is very good at and truly enjoys. After much debate and contemplation, we’ve decided to stay in NY for the foreseeable future. And…drumroll please…we just hit the eighteen month mark in our current home which makes it the house I’ve lived in the longest since I left my parent’s home.

What did I do to celebrate? Hung realwindow treatments (aka simple curtains, lol) in our bedroom. If you ask my Mom, she would say every time I’ve hung window treatments or pictures, I end up moving immediately afterwards, so she thinks it’s a bad omen. I’ve decided that’s just because I wait so long to do it. So, I stopped waiting and just did it. It feels good. I know it’s something little, and something my husband will probably always find silly and not the least bit helpful in making a “house a home” but it helps our goal of achieving excellent sleep and it makes me feel like a grown-up again. A grown-up that has been dying to settle-down for over a decade.

November 17, 2011

Quantified Self: These Are SO My People!

I love tracking things (I am an accountant by trade, after all). I have spreadsheets for all kinds of things, and since I’ve had an iPhone, tracking my life has been so much easier. I’m constantly wondering, is there an App for that?

When we first realized my husband needed to monitor his sleep, I did some research and found Zeo. This thing is awesome. My husband has been using his for over a year and a half, and we have found it extremely useful in discovering how he can get his “best sleep.” I’ve never considered myself a bad sleeper, but using Zeo myself could help me get better sleep as well. I think we’ll upgrade hubby to the new Zeo Mobile soon,
since he travels for work and it would be easier to bring along, and he will pass-down his Zeo Bedside to me. Yay! (That reminds me…I have some stuff to sell)

As Zeo’s Number One Fan, I (obviously) “like” them on Facebook. Recently, they linked to this article. Holy Goodness. I think I’m in love.

Hello, Quantified Self. You are the epitome of awesomeness. Your website alone has me swooning, and if I could actually attend a meetup, well, I just might propose marriage (don’t worry, Big Handsome won’t mind- he is the King of Excel and Lifetracking is right up his alley)!

I can hardly wait to use some of the new tools I’ve discovered thanks to Quantified Self. Chaos conquering will be even easier…and I’m smiling a little extra on the inside, knowing there is actually a group for others like me.

I will be sure to share all things chaos-conquering and Lifetracking related as soon as I have enough data! I you happen to be a Quantified Self-er trying to improve health and simplify meal planning, try Personal Paleo Code.

I am not a paid affiliate for any of the tools or products mentioned on this page.

November 16, 2011

Paleo vs Four Hour Body: Part 1

As many of you know, I’ve been transitioning the family to Paleo (or primal) for a while now. I would consider my personal transition complete. The only meals I cook are Paleo, and though my kids have been tricky, we are getting there. Big Handsome (BH) is getting there too…eats whatever I cook, so he is mostly Paleo.  If, however, he eats at the office on a day when I forget to pack his lunch (oops!), he eats whatever the “special” is…which is rarely paleo-friendly.

BH started reading The 4-Hour Body a couple of weeks ago. Up until that point, he had gone with the flow, but he generally takes less of a personal interest in this whole “food” thing, knowing I handle it and I do my research for the family.  We are pretty big fans of Tim Ferris and The 4-Hour Workweek. The more I read about Tim Ferris, the more I see similarities in what I do…always experimenting, always seeing what works best for me/us. I’m forever rearranging furniture (much to my husbands chagrin), adjusting nap schedules or which kids sleep in which rooms…I guess just trying to find that happy place where there is less crazy-feeling and more relaxed feelings. The same goes with food.

The Four Hour Body Diet is very similar to Paleo. The biggest difference is Ferris recommends eating a lot of legumes. With the exception of re-introducing dairy in the form of whole-milk grass-fed yogurt (for the kids) and grass-fed butter, we have been basically grain, legume, and dairy-free. I was pretty hesitant to start feeding my husband a plethora of legumes because of known gut irritability and anti-nutrients. That said, Tim Ferris makes some decent points, and even Robb Wolf suggests that once people go grain, legume, and dairy-free, they can start adding a few things back in to see if their body can handle it.

Like the idea behind Chris Kresser’s new Personal Paleo Code, Wolf acknowledges that every person is an individual, and what works for me may not work for you…or specifically, what works for me may not work for my husband, and visa versa.

So, what’s the verdict…will I be switching to the Four Hour Body method, or sticking to Paleo and Primal basics? I’ve decided to continue cooking exactly as I have been- Paleo, family-style meals that are grain, legume, and dairy-free. Personally, I will not be adding legumes back into my diet, because as a person with IBS and chronic cystitis, I can’t handle the inflammatory nature of beans (I know this now, because I went strict Paleo, and it works for me, and I’m not going to mess with a good thing).

My husband, however, has no known gut or autoimmune issues, and seems to tolerate beans just fine; so, I will simply be adding legumes to all (otherwise) Paleo meals I serve my husband.

In order to resolve some of my concern with feeding my husband something that I know to be somewhat toxic, I did some additional research. Although Four Hour Body seems to push lentils, they have one of the highest levels of phytic acid and are NOT soaked before cooking, so lectins are also a concern. Small red beans, however, have one of the lowest levels of phytic acid AND require soaking before cooking. I’ve gone with adding small red beans for most of his meals, which he seems fine with, because the flavor is pretty easy to blend with everything I cook.

Last week, I soaked two bags of small red beans overnight, boiled them, and cooked them until soft. I’ve been adding roughly a cup of beans* to each of his meals from the batch I made, and it’s gone swimmingly.

I should note that the major point made in Four Hour Body (at least from what my husband tells me, and the few chapters I read) is keeping effort minimal so you’re likely to stick with the program. Ferris loves lentils and canned beans because he knows he won’t take the time to cook dry beans. Since I’m not in love with the idea of pumping my husband full of phytic acid or exposing him to the high levels of BPA found in canned beans (except a few organic brands, which break the bank in my opinion, at about $2 per can), I’m okay with taking a few extra minutes to properly prepare legumes for him.

Once hubby reaches his goals, we may decide to nix the legumes, but if he continues to feel great despite consuming copious amounts of beans and discovers they actually help him with satiety, I will keep adding them to his meals.

As of the date of this post, it’s been about a week, and Big Handsome is feeling great on Four Hour Body… and seeing impressive results.

Check back for my next Four Hour Body vs Paleo post, where I will be writing about the controversial “cheat day.”

*I do realize, unfortunately, that by adding roughly a cup of beans to 3 meals a day means he is consuming more than three times the maximum estimated amount of phytic acid that humans can tolerate in legume consumption alone.  That said, if he feels good and looks good, then maybe he can tolerate more than the average human :) .  

November 10, 2011

Stress Management, Cortisol, and Recovering from Unemployment

After reading all sorts of Paleo and Primal blogs and books, and listening to a few podcasts on a very consistent basis, I understand the basics; eliminate pretty much everything except meat and veggies, then start to add a few things back in gradually. Grass-fed and pasture raised meat is best, and organic, fresh, local produce is ideal. Sleep. Get a lot of sleep. At least eight hours of night in a very dark room. And manage stress.

Oh wait…what was that last one? Manage stress. This blog is about fighting chaos. Why don’t I have this stress- free thing on lock? Once again, the long-term-unemployment of yesteryear rears its ugly head.

My husband makes a fantastic income at the ripe old age of 30. But, as you know, we have four kiddos, live in one of the most expensive areas in the US (due to my husband’s job), and oh yeah, we’re coming out of some major ass-kicking by the economy in 2009/2010.

Furthermore, our health insurance is covering less and less for the same monthly premium, while making all of the enrollment literature appeared unchanged, which means I was none-the-wiser until the bills started rolling in. We are still paying medical bills from our preemie and my heart scare last year.

So, while we’ve managed to pay off a loan from the sale of a house (which we sold at a loss) and pay off my car, somehow, we are still trying to come back from unemployment. **If any of you are aware of statistics on the time it takes to recover from unemployment, please share! I would love to know…is it 3 months of gainful employment to every one month of unemployment. More? Less? We’ve been re-employed for twice as long as we were unemployed and we are still struggling to catch our breath. I realize as I write this that many are still unemployed or underemployed, and in no way do I mean to make my situation sound like the toughest to handle….I know it could be so much worse.**

The thing is, we kind of thought we would be “comfy” again by now. Not piling-up-the-money-comfy, but not-feeling-guilty-for-hiring-a-date-night-babysitter-comfy…ya know?

So, again, as the household CFO, I’ve decided to reevaluate. And to come full circle for you, in case it isn’t obvious, feeling short on rainy-day or emergency fund savings causes stress, which isnt good for health, and is one of the highly emphasized keys of living Paleo or Primal or really any type of healthy lifestyle. A key that was kind of overlooked by me until now.

I have recently been buying 100% grass-fed meat (which is insanely delicious, by the way), and subscribing to an organic produce delivery service. Before I continue, I should say that I plan to return to both of these luxuries once the financial stress is in check, because I think the money is worth it…when money is free flowing, an emergency fund is fully stocked, and there is very little debt. I know debt means different things for different people, so I should clarify.  We haven’t “carried” credit card debt in a while, but we do have a high car payment (read: young and irresponsible financial decision) and medical bills that are enough to make us feel crazy and broke. Crazy and broke on a salary that should make most people feel like Kings and Queens at our age. So, for us, “very little debt”  hopefully means only my student loan and possibly a home mortgage.

As a minimalist family, we don’t shop a lot for non-consumables (although I have had to buy some key pieces since all of my pre-pregnancy clothes are too big and horribly out of style), we don’t subscribe to cable tv, and we generally try to avoid a ton of consumerism.  Unfortunately, I’ve found a different way to feed the shopping rush…groceries and *tear* Amazon.com. Now, I love me my Amazon Prime Membership, and I plan to keep it, but it does make spending money a little too easy…especially from my Amazon iPhone app!

Spending a ton of money on really healthy food feels good to me.  I don’t ever get the shopping guilt I would get in my single years from spending too much at the mall, because I feel like I am ultimately doing my family a service by feeding them the best of the best.  Now, while I do not plan to start buying pasta and bread in bulk (don’t worry this family has gone back to (primal) basics and we are not turning back!), I do have a plan to continue feeding my family healthy food… this time on a budget!

In a future post, I will get down and dirty in the details of our new food budget.  In the meantime, if anyone has stories of triumphant return from unemployment, tips, tricks, what-have-you, I’m ALL ears!