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December 1, 2011

Paleo Family on a Budget: Six People, Six Rules, Six Hundred Dollars

I’ve been working on a food budget. Really working. As I said in my last post, it does feel good to buy the absolute best of the best Paleo food options for my family, but nothing feels as good as a replenished emergency fund will. So, to that end, we’ve temporarily given up our monthly delivery of grass-fed meat and weekly delivery of fresh, organic produce.

I gave myself a month leeway to get a handle of what we need vs what we want at the grocery store and how each of those things adds up. I’m not saying I’ve never paid attention before, but I was really in the “all health food is a must have expense, even if those dried apple chips for the kids are $1.00 a bag” camp. Oh and by the way, also a big fan of the “my kids need those apple chips to take to the gym so they have a snack when I work out” excuse.  Not.any.more.  Can you believe that fresh fruit is actually just as convenient as the pre-packaged apple chips were? Really.  Apples and bananas are so easy to grab and put in our gym bag.  My kids haven’t even mentioned the lack of apple chips in the house.  Try it.  

Anyway, now that I am really paying attention, a tight grocery budget has helped us stick with basics in other ways as well, sticking to lean meat (since it’s not grass fed), eggs, fresh produce, frozen veggies, and healthy fats (and dry beans for my 4HB husband). That’s it pretty much it, although I did make room in the budget for coconut flour and almond flour for some comfort foods (who doesn’t love Everyday Paleo’s Meatloaf)?

Alright, alright.  I’m sure you are dying to know…what’s the dollar amount? How much money have I budgeted for groceries each month for our family of six?

Six hundred dollars. That’s roughly $20 per day. Granted, most of the mouths in our family are small children, so it’s really more like feeding 3.5 to 4 adults.

In case you’re curious, during my adjustment month (November), I was only over by $28, which I consider a success, considering it was a month with a birthday in the family (read: special breakfast, dinner, and of course cupcakes!) and Thanksgiving.

It’s December 1st, Day 1 of our new budget.  To help make grocery shopping easier, I came up with a few guidelines for myself that has made it easier to stick with this budget. These are not earth shattering revelations here, people, just things I’m implementing.

Six Paleo Budget Rules for a Family of Six:

1. Lean Meat: $1.99 per pound or less (roughly $120/month)

Buy what is on sale, especially if it’s got a special coupon on it for quick turn-around. If you cook it or freeze it right away, buying meat like that is truly a bargain! When I go to the store, I already know what meat is on sale and plan to buy that, but first I peruse the meat isle to see if I can get a better deal.

2.  Omega 3-Enriched Cage-Free Eggs: $4.50/18 Pack or Less (roughly $80/month)

I suppose this is a tiny splurge, since you can get regular ‘ol eggs for less than $3.00 per 18 pack.  This is one of the three areas that I decided the splurge was necessary, and I made other adjustments.

3. Fresh Produce: $0.99 per pound or less (roughly $30/month)

There is always fresh fruit on sale. I buy bananas every week since my kids love them, and usually apples since they are in season, but I make up the difference in what’s on sale. Hubby and I don’t usually eat fruit, so this is a kids-only expense.

Fresh Vegetables are hit or miss. I always buy baby carrots, but I rarely buy other fresh vegetables lately unless I feel like it’s a real bargain. Frozen vegetables are already ready to go…and are always on sale!

4. Frozen Vegetables: $1.79 per 16oz bag or less (roughly $90/month)

I can usually get a way better deal, but there are some things we can’t do without (Cauliflower, for example)! I end up spending less money on vegetables this way because I don’t throw any away. I am very particular about fresh produce… It has to look pristine, or I toss it. I’m sure I will get better about that, but for now, I’m sticking with what’s working, and that’s frozen all the way, baby!

5. Healthy Fats: (roughly $60/month)

Coconut Oil: $20/month
I buy Nutivia Organic Coconut Oil on Amazon Subscribe and Save for about $20 per 54 ounce container.

*Kerrygold Grass Fed Butter: $12/month
4 sticks a month ($2.99 each at Whole Foods)

*Whole Milk Grass fed Yogurt: $28/ month
Four (4) Glass Bottles of Traders Point Creamery Brand ($6.50 each at Whole Foods)

*I know the grass fed butter and yogurt are sort of splurges. I’ve decided it’s worth it to get the healthy fats from grass fed butter since we aren’t buying grass fed meat right now, and besides, it’s delicious on veggies! My kids are the only ones that drink the yogurt, but I think it’s a great way for them to get some probiotics (they don’t take probiotic supplements).

6. Other Staples: $100/month

Grass-fed Gelatin $12
Coconut Flour $22
Almond Flour $32
Curry Paste $10
Coconut Cream $14
Dry Beans for my 4HB Hubby $10

The grand total for this list only is $480, leaving $120 a month (less than $30 per week) “wiggle room” for extra’s at the store.  I know I can do it, and I’m pretty proud of myself for my performance last month.

It is possible, and I’m going to hold myself accountable to sticking my Paleo Family of Six on a budget of $600 per month.  Will you help me*? Want to join in?

*I’m going to try to post a spreadsheet of my exact grocery expenses so you can see that I am actually doing it, and that Paleo on a budget is possible…even with a family!

November 17, 2011

Quantified Self: These Are SO My People!

I love tracking things (I am an accountant by trade, after all). I have spreadsheets for all kinds of things, and since I’ve had an iPhone, tracking my life has been so much easier. I’m constantly wondering, is there an App for that?

When we first realized my husband needed to monitor his sleep, I did some research and found Zeo. This thing is awesome. My husband has been using his for over a year and a half, and we have found it extremely useful in discovering how he can get his “best sleep.” I’ve never considered myself a bad sleeper, but using Zeo myself could help me get better sleep as well. I think we’ll upgrade hubby to the new Zeo Mobile soon,
since he travels for work and it would be easier to bring along, and he will pass-down his Zeo Bedside to me. Yay! (That reminds me…I have some stuff to sell)

As Zeo’s Number One Fan, I (obviously) “like” them on Facebook. Recently, they linked to this article. Holy Goodness. I think I’m in love.

Hello, Quantified Self. You are the epitome of awesomeness. Your website alone has me swooning, and if I could actually attend a meetup, well, I just might propose marriage (don’t worry, Big Handsome won’t mind- he is the King of Excel and Lifetracking is right up his alley)!

I can hardly wait to use some of the new tools I’ve discovered thanks to Quantified Self. Chaos conquering will be even easier…and I’m smiling a little extra on the inside, knowing there is actually a group for others like me.

I will be sure to share all things chaos-conquering and Lifetracking related as soon as I have enough data! I you happen to be a Quantified Self-er trying to improve health and simplify meal planning, try Personal Paleo Code.

I am not a paid affiliate for any of the tools or products mentioned on this page.

November 10, 2011

Stress Management, Cortisol, and Recovering from Unemployment

After reading all sorts of Paleo and Primal blogs and books, and listening to a few podcasts on a very consistent basis, I understand the basics; eliminate pretty much everything except meat and veggies, then start to add a few things back in gradually. Grass-fed and pasture raised meat is best, and organic, fresh, local produce is ideal. Sleep. Get a lot of sleep. At least eight hours of night in a very dark room. And manage stress.

Oh wait…what was that last one? Manage stress. This blog is about fighting chaos. Why don’t I have this stress- free thing on lock? Once again, the long-term-unemployment of yesteryear rears its ugly head.

My husband makes a fantastic income at the ripe old age of 30. But, as you know, we have four kiddos, live in one of the most expensive areas in the US (due to my husband’s job), and oh yeah, we’re coming out of some major ass-kicking by the economy in 2009/2010.

Furthermore, our health insurance is covering less and less for the same monthly premium, while making all of the enrollment literature appeared unchanged, which means I was none-the-wiser until the bills started rolling in. We are still paying medical bills from our preemie and my heart scare last year.

So, while we’ve managed to pay off a loan from the sale of a house (which we sold at a loss) and pay off my car, somehow, we are still trying to come back from unemployment. **If any of you are aware of statistics on the time it takes to recover from unemployment, please share! I would love to know…is it 3 months of gainful employment to every one month of unemployment. More? Less? We’ve been re-employed for twice as long as we were unemployed and we are still struggling to catch our breath. I realize as I write this that many are still unemployed or underemployed, and in no way do I mean to make my situation sound like the toughest to handle….I know it could be so much worse.**

The thing is, we kind of thought we would be “comfy” again by now. Not piling-up-the-money-comfy, but not-feeling-guilty-for-hiring-a-date-night-babysitter-comfy…ya know?

So, again, as the household CFO, I’ve decided to reevaluate. And to come full circle for you, in case it isn’t obvious, feeling short on rainy-day or emergency fund savings causes stress, which isnt good for health, and is one of the highly emphasized keys of living Paleo or Primal or really any type of healthy lifestyle. A key that was kind of overlooked by me until now.

I have recently been buying 100% grass-fed meat (which is insanely delicious, by the way), and subscribing to an organic produce delivery service. Before I continue, I should say that I plan to return to both of these luxuries once the financial stress is in check, because I think the money is worth it…when money is free flowing, an emergency fund is fully stocked, and there is very little debt. I know debt means different things for different people, so I should clarify.  We haven’t “carried” credit card debt in a while, but we do have a high car payment (read: young and irresponsible financial decision) and medical bills that are enough to make us feel crazy and broke. Crazy and broke on a salary that should make most people feel like Kings and Queens at our age. So, for us, “very little debt”  hopefully means only my student loan and possibly a home mortgage.

As a minimalist family, we don’t shop a lot for non-consumables (although I have had to buy some key pieces since all of my pre-pregnancy clothes are too big and horribly out of style), we don’t subscribe to cable tv, and we generally try to avoid a ton of consumerism.  Unfortunately, I’ve found a different way to feed the shopping rush…groceries and *tear* Amazon.com. Now, I love me my Amazon Prime Membership, and I plan to keep it, but it does make spending money a little too easy…especially from my Amazon iPhone app!

Spending a ton of money on really healthy food feels good to me.  I don’t ever get the shopping guilt I would get in my single years from spending too much at the mall, because I feel like I am ultimately doing my family a service by feeding them the best of the best.  Now, while I do not plan to start buying pasta and bread in bulk (don’t worry this family has gone back to (primal) basics and we are not turning back!), I do have a plan to continue feeding my family healthy food… this time on a budget!

In a future post, I will get down and dirty in the details of our new food budget.  In the meantime, if anyone has stories of triumphant return from unemployment, tips, tricks, what-have-you, I’m ALL ears!

September 10, 2011

DIY Toddler Preschool Chart: Weekly Menu aka “You Try It, You Like It!”

 

 

 

 

Our first delivery from Urban Organic arrived two days ago.  I know I’ve said that I use a lot of frozen vegetables, and I still use some, but I’m trying something new.  You see, I’ve been trying to reinvent the wheel, and get my kids to like eating Paleo.  I had this fancy schmancy idea to create a food chart/ weekly menu for Jude and Carl to help with every week. My hope is this gets them excited about trying new fruits and vegetables.  So far (two days in), it has totally worked! Yay me!

 

Let me start by saying, I am not even a little bit crafty. Even my penmanship stinks.  I can, however, do a thing or two in Google Docs.  So, I bought a pocket chart at the One Spot at Target and got to work.  Using Google Docs Paint, I searched for copy-write free images of all of the fruits and veggies found on my Urban Organic list for the week.  I shrunk each picture to the correct size, threw a label on it for reading practice, and voila… a Weekly Menu “You Try it, You Like it” Food Chart!

Every Friday morning (our delivery comes Thursday night), the two oldest boys help me by picking out the fruit, vegetable, and breakfast item they want for that week.  I’ve already come up with my recipes based on the produce list, so I just insert my meals into the days the kids have selected.  Hopefully, the Yo-Gabba-Gabba line “You Try it, You Like it” will help us out here. . .I’ll be posting my recipes and what works as I go, so wish me luck!

 

It’s not the most beautiful thing you’ve ever seen, but hey- if it gets my kids excited, I’m happy!

September 4, 2011

Hurricane Irene Food Spoilage & A Fresh Start!

It’s been more than a week since Hurricane Irene touched down on the East Coast. As I post this, I realize that some have lost their lives, homes, pets, possessions, and more, and I feel fortunate to have avoided all of these losses. Living on the coast of Long Island, we expected far worse, and evacuated with our children before Irene hit.

The only inconvenience caused by Irene for us (and likely many of you), was the loss of electricity. A week later, there are still thousands of families without power. If you are like us, and lost power for several days or more (five for us), the food in your refrigerator and freezer spoiled and had to been thrown away. Many full garbage bags, hundreds of dollars.

In these economic times, the thought of stocking up on perishables can be overwhelming. It’s not just the big stuff, it’s the “use once in a while” condiments and specialty cooking items that add up.

I’ve decided to look at the silver lining here. This is a perfect chance for a fresh start. If you’ve been trying to clean-up your eating habits by going Paleo or just by tossing the junk, now is the time! I’ve always felt guilty throwing away food, even if it’s unhealthy, because it’s like throwing money in the trash. In this case, you’re forced to toss it anyway. DON’T REPLACE THE JUNK!

If you’re looking for a good list of essentials, the Everyday Cookbook has a great list, and Robb Wolf’s website has a PDF of shopping lists for several weeks.

*it is worth mentioning that some homeowners insurance policies and renters insurance policies cover food spoilage in events like this. It’s worth checking out, but ours does not.

May 18, 2011

Recipe: Paleo Kid’s Oatmeal Substitute

I’m calling this a recipe for kids because I don’t recommend adults even bother with using substitutes for things like Oatmeal. . .better to just eat something that is clean and Paleo. That being said, transitioning my three youngest kids to Paleo has required some fancy footwork on my part. I created this recipe for Paleo Oatmeal on the fly, and my two-year old loves it. I can’t vouch for the taste, because I haven’t tried it (I’m in the “don’t try things you may fall in love with and want to have every day” camp), but if my two-year-old will eat it, it must be okay. Please note- this recipe includes a splash of Grade B Maple Syrup. This is optional, and I realize including it makes this recipe less Paleo. During this transition, that’s okay with me.

  • 1 Egg
  • Splash of Grade B Maple Syrup (optional)
  • Sprinkle of Cinnamon (optional)
  • Scant 1/4 cup almond meal
  • 1 Tablespoon Flax Meal
  • Splash of Unsweetened Coconut Milk

Combine first three ingredients in a microwave safe bowl and whisk with a fork until the egg is beaten well.  Add almond meal (just enough to make a runny batter) and flax meal and continue to stir. When well combined, microwave for 1.5 minutes at 50% power. Depending on the wattage of your microwave, you may have to play around with the power setting and the timing, but the cereal should look slightly fluffy, and the egg should be completely cooked. Using a clean fork, mash the cereal and a splash of coconut milk until it looks like kind of thick oatmeal or grits.

It may sound unpalatable, but my kid inhales it. I serve this with fresh fruit, and even still, he often asks for seconds.

Please leave feedback! I would love to know if your kid(s) like it too.

March 29, 2011

Best Toilet Cleaning Tip Ever!

If you haven’t heard of The Fly Lady, you should really check out her website.  I use a lot of her ideas and tips – this is one that I’ve only slightly modified.

The issue I always had with cleaning the bathroom was keeping the chemicals in a place that was safe from my kids and didn’t take up valuable bathroom space. This meant cleaning the bathroom was a huge job, because I had to find the chemicals and bring them from room to room.  Translation: Bathrooms were not rarely clean.

Enter the “Swish & Swipe.”  My version of the Swish & Swipe goes something like this:

  1. Buy Glass Cleaning Wipes.
  2. Buy any toilet bowl brush and holder you like (you probably already have one)
  3. When you go into your bathroom first thing in the morning, grab a glass cleaning wipe and wipe down your mirror, counters, and sink.
  4. Grab the hand soap and squirt a few pumps of hand soap into the toilet.
  5. Scrub the toilet bowl (this should be more like a gently swish, since you do this regularly).
  6. Wipe the back of the toilet bowl, lid, and seat with the cleaning wipes you used in the first steps.

That’s it.  It’s really easy.  I clean my kid’s bathroom when they are in the bathtub using the same method.  Of course, this is not the same as a good old-fashioned bathroom cleaning, but it helps to do this every day or so in between cleanings.

To find out more about The Fly Lady, and to read the real version of the “Swish & Swipe,” visit her website.